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    1. crormaSoila18

      crormaSoila18 Well-Known Member

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      So this girl I've seen 3 times now, we were texting and she says as of today, she has a bf..................... This is the same girl who 1 week ago said I have pretty eyes, laughs at EVERYTHING I say, and wants to chill with me whenever we are at school.

      I was gonna ask her out on Monday so I texted her to skip class so we could chill but she said she didn't get the text til 3 hrs later and she was sorry.

      I was gonna ask her today but we only had 15 minutes together and now I really regret not doing it... Is she mind phucking me?????? I highly doubt she would get bf outta the blue while she seemed to show genuine interest in me.

      Here is the convo( we were talking about a friend before the first line)
      Her: "she met my bf today, so whatever"
      Me: "you have a bf? Lol who?"
      Her: "Benjamin, as of today hahah"

      I haven't responded yet and wanna know if she is mind phucking me, then I will ask her out anyways when I see her Friday.

      But as of now I'm cutting contact.

      Edit: I mean, who gets a BF in one day?! You can have a date planned/get asked out, but a boyfriend!!!

      Fukc getting friend zoned. Screw relationships, time to smash and dash from now on
       
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      Depressed... Given out reps

      Last edited by jollygenies; Today at 07:40 PM.
       
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    3. Canellesao

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      Don't freak out so much brah, looks like severe one-itis. But srs, it seems like she's just leading you on, I doubt she got that text 3 hours later.
       
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      So what's with the first day we chilled and how she said "you have really pretty eyes" and all the flirty touch/ hitting?

      I really think she's mindphuckin here..... As if she wants to see if this will make me tell her I like her
       
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    5. uFaro

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      Maybe she liked you more at that time and is getting bored of you now. Either way, just tell her, there's nothing wrong with liking a female.
       
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    6. Korporalegq

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      Op i know this feel, Youre PHUCKED ITHER WAY. Be prepared to be depressed for next 2 months, if one-itis atleast. The thoguht never really goes away. Best advice I can say is get big, so when you see her she regrets everyday.
       
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      This about 5 minutes ago...

      Me: "when did that happen? Does he go to our college)
      Her: "Yeah he does! It happened later during my gap, he asked me to be his gf, so yeah! Hahaha"

      I feel pissed but now realize its best to just cut contact. Move on. Sad.
       
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    8. jailynn24hb

      jailynn24hb Well-Known Member

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      We're set to chill Friday and Monday before class, should I just ignore her completely? I think I'd feel less depressed if I tell her my feelings.
       
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      She's an idiot or a liar, either way, yeah, just ignore her.
       
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    10. baletki

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      Bro, you've got a case of one-itis! You could try saying, "Is Benjamin a nickname for (insert your name here)?". It's a tad bit cocky, but shows that you're not afraid to get out there and show her how you feel.
       
      baletki, Oct 17, 2012
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