Ok really shy with people I dont know, especially males. Trust issues etc, how do you tell someone that you find them OK, by that I mean they make you smile. How would you go about that when they dont know and you are unsure if you want them to know as that could upset the apple cart. Kaza
How do you ? Firstly, I would not say that you find them 'Ok'. Secondly, trust very few, you dont have to trust them just be confident in yourself, your views and what you want. Need more info really... you trying to ask a guy/girl out?
How do you ? Need more info, a male being given any kind of compliment by a female will usually take it as a signal that you want to jump into bed with him, and I'm assuming this is no the case?
How do you ? Just be honest and don't beat around the bush like me I wouldn't now if a woman was being nice to me or coming on to me
How do you ? As said before, we need more info please? And also, don't be too trusting too quickly, just be yourself, but just be wary, until you know the person well enough to make a decision of some sort. Even then it's a risk, but that's life, and sometimes you have to take risks.
How do you ? Yeah if you dont tell them they will never know. Keeping them guessing is good but not long term!
How do you ? I would use the thing that they say or do that makes you smile and feel good about them as a natural lead into to compliment you want to give them. All compliments should be sincere anyway, so when they act in whatever way it si that you admire, just say so in simple terms... don't make a huge deal of it, but just tell them you think its a good quality that they have/a kind or nice thing that they do or whatever, and say that you feel it reflects that they are a nice person. Just be sincere
