So in about 9 weeks ive lost 21.8lbs and 10inches. I was 182lbs and big..Im going into my 3rd week of P90x.. Anyways my bf hes fit built sexy of course and the thing is he only wants me to eat healthy and not lose the weight. he said he was fine with the way i looked. b4 he was kinda after me to lose the weight..Now i have nicer legs, butt arms..still loosing the belly lol..im feeling good and will continue to lose the weight for me, but why would he be like that?Threatened or afraid other guys are gonna look?
My bf Well, if you truly would prefer to be even leaner and aren't content or satisfied w/your goals thus far then you should keep going... However, it's highly possible that he thinks youre just right for him right now. i think if he felt threatened and didn't want you to look better because of other guys, he wouldn't have wanted you to lose weight in the first place. Now 21lbs later, he feels like you're ideal for his taste. I could be wrong but it's an educated guess. A lot of men, myself included, think that a lot of women that start working out eventually go a little overboard and get too lean. I like a girl to be fit and a little muscly but I like some softness around the butt and thighs. I personally am not attracted to women w/muscle striations and visible veins. But like I said, if that look is what you truly like for yourself then keep on truckin.
My bf I dont want to get super muscular, i really just want to lose the fat and be defined and tight but look good. He doesnt want me to have bigger muscles then him nor do i. So i just wanna be healthy....I know before like 5 months ago he wasnt ok with my weight...now he is....lol but this is for me..
My bf Sounds like he wasn't prepared for you to change so much. May take him a bit to get adjusted to the changes. If you're doing this because it feels good and you like what you see in the mirror, he needs to get that through his head. If he's a man, he'll accept your healthier lifestyle as a positive. And if he chooses not to, that's his loss.
My bf I think he will be fine since it was him who bought me p90x and chinup bar and resistant bands plus weights...lol
My bf could be he just doesnt wanna say..could be he is a little worried about how far you are gonna take this..how muscular you are are gonna be..
My bf I think he is since one of his ex gfs he just found out from like 6 years ago is now a body builder and he finds that disgusting (just his taste)
My bf every man has his own opinion on what he finds physically attractive in a female..does not make him the devil..necessarily.. some like very small and petite women some like very fit women with a low bodyfat percentage some like curvy women with hips and boobies.. some like fat women.. who can understand the male animal? the only reason I would say get worried or concerned if he starts to undermine your hard work..starts to try to talk you out of working out..tries to tempt you with bad for you food..
