(please read) sensitive situation that needs an unbiased view!!

suighja · May 24, 2012

(please read) sensitive situation that needs an unbiased view!!

eight and three quarters,,, i'd say

baletki · May 24, 2012

(please read) sensitive situation that needs an unbiased view!!

Well seem as that was so hard to read and i stuck with it i find myself obliged to comment..
Id say give the lass a break, You said once a cheat always a cheat then you said you cheated in other relationships so that makes you a future cheat also.
If you realy like her work at the relationship and just keep a close eye in the future.
Remember keep your lass happy or someone else will ............

defelqy · May 24, 2012

(please read) sensitive situation that needs an unbiased view!!

when you start down this road it shows what you are both capable of.id cut me losses and move on

crormaSoila18 · May 24, 2012

(please read) sensitive situation that needs an unbiased view!!

Firstly apologies I know this is in no way bodybuilding related but I just wish to get it off my chest and don't like talking to anyone in person it seems easer!

Started seeing my gf in march last year I met her through a drunken works do where she kissed and at the time she had a bf but after talking said she was unhappy )this was in december 2010....we began by talking/flirting on fb and feb she popped round my house where we kissed but no matter how hard I tried she wouldn't go futher....shortly after she finsihed with her bf and we slept together and even went paris in april ( on this trip she told me she loved me when drunk and the next morning I sort of withdrew the things I said the night before).

However in may she went on a work trip abroad for 4 days and I noticed when she come back she was friend requested by a bloke over there who works on site and noticed he popped up from time to time so I asked her shortly after if anything happend and she said no!

About a week after this I was away to and we was rowing a little and I left her ona bad note that night she called me it was after midnight and heard a female voice and went into one as she was drunk as she was out on the **** too (nothing happend my end btw)

Anway getting on lovely could really see us going somewhere but something last night on telly prompted me to say oh what went on when you was away that time and she said oh he tried to kiss me but that was it! Talk about a slap in the face I have even talked to the person since unbknown to me that happend! After I really interogated her she said they was in a large group and then people left and she was going back to her room he walked her back and asked for a coke from fridge and at the door said I want to kiss you and leaned in and plated one she said after a couple of seconds she pulled back and it took a moment to register what was happening! I kept on pushing for more did you do anything else surely you thought it was coming when you were walking back but she said no also she had a colleague who was in the bedrrom asleeep.

Fact- after returning she still spoke with the lad on fb on her wall he woud chip in from time to time until july 21st I can remeber if it said on fb we was in a relationship at that point but she did say that he said he would be returning to the uk and they should all go out for drinks so I said you want to put him staright before he gets the wrong idea! After that message which i never read he unfreinded her.

I said tell me I won't be angry was trying to get info so I asked what did your mum say(she tells her everything) and she said without hesitation her mum said don't tell him it will only annoy him and nothing really happend and it wasn't your thought so to speak!

So I carried on and on I said tell me has anything else happend etc tell me now and I won't hold it against you so she went to the toilet and said I have one last thing to tell you that night when she went mental at me for being with female company she was at a friends party and was v.drunk and she kissed a random fella in the club , one of her friend asked if it was me and she said no and cried and so they took her home early.

The more I think about it the more annoyed I get she said nothing else has ever happend nothing on fb and she was honest once and told me a guy that was a freind of a freind tried and she said no sorry and told me.....now we started the relationship in a bad way once a cheater always a cheater? I love the girl and even though I have cheated in over relationships in the past have been totally faithul to her and completly honest!

She said she didn't know where she stood with me as I kept her a 'secret' and was in a bad place with friends etc who alienated her for how our relationship started... Below is a txt from today please tell me your unbiased thoughts

I no its bad but was a long time ago now and like i said it was a time wen u was keepin me a secret and i was in a bad place. I would never do it again i love u so much i would never hurt u and we have a packed. I wish i cud take it bak but i cant it was stupid all i can is im sorry n will never happen n i will never lie to u again x

Thanks.
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i have edited this so it is more readable as my phone is ****!

parnassto · May 24, 2012

(please read) sensitive situation that needs an unbiased view!!

Tough one fella - as you said "once a cheat always a cheat", I think you'll now always have an insecurity with her now and that won't help a relationship.

I think the best thing for you both to do is delete facebook as this is likely to cause further problems down the line, and also seems to be a fair few drunk moments her end, nothing wrong with socialising with friends but if shes out on the session quite a lot, this is gonna drive you mad further down the line.
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she rarely goes out with the girls tbh and stopped getting drunk....like i say i have cheated but have learnt and thats why i was so honest in this relationship!

Canellesao · May 24, 2012

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How old are yous?
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25 mate

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